This or That Questions
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What’s something small that always makes your day better?
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- 01Coffee or tea?
- 02Beach vacation or city break?
- 03Early bird or night owl?
- 04Books or movies?
- 05Cooking at home or eating out?
- 06Mountains or ocean?
- 07Texting or calling?
- 08Dogs or cats?
- 09Summer or winter?
- 10Concerts or festivals?
- 11Road trip or flight?
- 12Sweet or savory?
- 13Plan everything or go with the flow? Try asking: What does your last spontaneous decision say about you?
- 14Sunrise or sunset?
- 15City energy or countryside quiet?
- 16Deep talks or light laughs?
- 17Save the moment with photos or just live it?
- 18Podcasts or playlists?
More easy questions that work here
Safe extras from the wider collection.
- 01What's something small that always makes your day better?
- 02What have you always wanted to learn? Try asking: What first sparked your interest in it?
- 03What is something you've changed your mind about recently? Try asking: What finally tipped you over?
- 04What could you talk about for hours without getting bored? Try asking: How did you first get into it?
- 05What's one place you'd love to visit just for the food?
- 06What do most people get wrong about you?
- 07What makes you laugh every time, no matter what?
- 08What do you want to get better at this year?
- 09What's your favorite way to spend a free Saturday? Try asking: Who would you bring along?
- 10What is a skill you have that surprises people?
- 11What's the best trip you've ever taken?
- 12What song instantly puts you in a good mood?
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Getting more out of these questions
- Start light and get more personal as the conversation warms up.
- Follow the interesting answer, not your list. One good follow-up beats three new questions.
- Share your own answer too, conversation is a trade, not an interview.
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