Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Read one aloud, both commit, then argue about it. These are picked for two people who already know each other well.

  1. 01Would you rather always know when someone is lying, or always be able to convince people you are telling the truth?
  2. 02Would you rather relive your favorite date together or preview one perfect future day together?
  3. 03Would you rather know all the answers but never be asked, or be asked everything but never know the answers?
  4. 04Would you rather know exactly what your date is thinking, or have your date know exactly what you are thinking?
  5. 05Would you rather never argue but never have deep talks, or have big deep talks but argue once a month?
  6. 06Would you rather find your dream job but earn little, or earn a fortune doing work you dislike?
  7. 07Would you rather have a perfect first date that fizzles out, or an awkward first date that turns into something great?
  8. 08Would you rather cook together every night or go out to eat together every night?
  9. 09Would you rather remember everything perfectly or forget every painful memory?
  10. 10Would you rather date someone who is always 10 minutes early or always 20 minutes late?
  11. 11Would you rather always agree on movies but never on restaurants, or always agree on restaurants but never on movies?
  12. 12Would you rather have a partner who texts all day or one who calls every evening?
  13. 13Would you rather go on a first date at a fancy restaurant or doing something active?
  14. 14Would you rather date someone who plans everything or someone totally spontaneous?
  15. 15Would you rather be completely understood by everyone, or understand everyone without words?
  16. 16Would you rather always know what you want, or always know what others need?
  17. 17Would you rather have more time, or have more energy?
  18. 18Would you rather be remembered for your kindness, or be remembered for your courage?
  19. 19Would you rather change one choice from your past, or see one choice from your future?
  20. 20Would you rather be honest without consequences, or be forgiven without explaining?
  21. 21Would you rather have a perfect memory, or have a perfect imagination?
  22. 22Would you rather always feel at home, or always feel excited?
  23. 23Would you rather know your life purpose, or choose your life purpose?
  24. 24Would you rather be loved by everyone you meet, or deeply love everyone you meet?
  25. 25Would you rather have one true answer, or have endless good questions?
  26. 26Would you rather live a short extraordinary life, or live a long peaceful life?

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Frequently asked questions

How do couples play would you rather?

Each person picks independently, no negotiating first. The fun is discovering where you split.

What makes a good couples prompt?

Choices with no obvious winner, where each side reveals something about values or taste.